January 4, 2010


Today, ladies, it's our MORNING GLORIOUS badge we are earning.

My school day routine is to do a "wake up" sort of behavior and stumble downstairs.

I feed the two sets of whiskers and tails staring me down, do a little glassy-eyed laundry change-out-type motions, pour that cup of life then run through studio stuff to set up my day.

Then I get Girl situated for school and when she leaves for the bus, Dean Martin (Mr. Handsomepants black lab) and I join her for the start of his walk. Notice I did not mention beautify or primp anywhere in that routine.

I am sometimes aware that other humans will be witnessing me, but because it's my neighborhood, I somehow feel it's an extension of my home and I wouldn't even feel bad, really, walking the dog in pajamas. I have.

I can get as fancy as work-out capris and a sweatshirt, and a running hat to hide my Medusa hair. Taking cues from the Big Book of Hollywood Glamour, I don big black sunglasses to hide the big dark circles under my eyes. I am the first to confess...it is not pretty. In fact, it's impressively not pretty!

I then shuffle my way up the street to greet the other contestants competing for this semester's crown and sash of
Ms. Morning School Bus Stop
(Names have been changed to protect the guilty.)

First up is Heather, having a particularly aggressive bedhead day, who is forever in flip flops she's had since before she met her husband, chewed up by the dog she had since before she had her flip flops. She gazes confidently at the crowd and judges in her untucked tshirt with stains from the cup of coffee she carries to the bus stop.

Next we have Amy parading up the culdesac runway in baggy tshirt, sweatpants with one leg stuck up by her knee and one leg down by her ankle, baby on hip. You won't find rhinestones or a sequins on Amy, but you will see leftover glitter in her hair and a three day old ponytail.

Then there is Sally. (There's always a Sally.) Stopping short of concrete hair, Sally is always prim and proper, gorgeous and stylishly dressed for work, to everyone else's dismay. She makes up for her perfect looks by being always great to chat with, so we forgive her, though she will never win the crown in this pristine condition.

It's our pleasure to introduce Marian in white ankle socks and garden tennies, all-purpose baggy khaki shorts, one leg shaved, and whatever shirt or jacket is closest within reach. Her hair is urgently clipped back, well, most of it, no makeup and a serious amount of energy for the 7am hour. She will surely win the Most Caffeinated title.

Finally we have Rob, stay-at-home dad on the block, who just doesn't count. He's a dude and dudes can look however they want in the morning. It looks the same in the afternoon and evening and they always look good. But because he shows up for the pageant every day, he gets an honorable mention.

We count on each other to keep up the competition for this coveted crown because it's a silent language of liberation for all of us to not have to be ON that early in the morning. Sally is secretly envious.


  1. Ah! You hit the nail on the head, once again.

    Of course Sally is the one with confidence issues, who feels the need to be perfectly coiffed at all times, lest she become an Oprah cliché of the "stay at home mom who let herself go, wears sweats all the time so her husband left her" - it takes a lot of energy to be poor Sally!

    I know each of these characters in several states, having moved quite a bit when my son was younger and I actually walked to the bus stop. He would die from the shame of it if I did it now - and on cold and rainy mornings, I am so thankful for that!

    Thank you Jill for your well crafted and humorous observations of the everyday life of moms.

    Keep on keepin' on!

    Tara Reed
    (the artist who loves fleece and throwing her hair up in a clip because it is just so quick and easy!)

  2. Ahh yes! But I must say, in this particular Sally's defense, she would prefer the sweats! She's just great and adored!

  3. My apologies - your Sally is obviously very different than the "Sally" I was thinking of! Now I have egg on my face along with my fleece and hair clip - not a pretty sight to see! *blushing*

  4. oh heavens, no apology or eggface!

    We all know the withering glances of the Sallys you are speaking of!

  5. hahhahahah........your so hysterical.
    Glad to see you blogging!

  6. should I be glad I don't live around the corner anymore....or should your pagent contestints be glad because as you know I would give them a run for their money, I would be the one who just has on the shirt and doesnt realize she isnt wearing anything over her undies!!